Can sex toys add spice to a relationship?

Toys for Couples

It's difficult to say which toy would work best for you and your boyfriend without knowing what type of stimulation you have in mind, but considering the number of toys designed specifically for couples you should be able to find something you can both agree on. I would suggest that you and your boyfriend get together and discuss the options and go from there.

The first category of toys for couples that comes to mind is cock rings and erection stimulators. These toys may not work for you because their primary function is to enhance sexual intercourse, but I am mentioning them because some of the erection stimulators like the Lover's Triad, Dolphin Erection Arouser and the Passion Ring each have a small egg-shaped vibrator that can be used by both men and women. In case you didn't know, many men find manual stimulation with a vibrator erotic and satisfying. The small size of the egg vibrator makes it a good choice for use during manual stimulation. You can place the egg in the palm of your hand and stimulate your boyfriend as you usually would. A vibrator adds a new dimension to manual stimulation.

Another category of toys that lend themselves to couple's play are vibrating fingertip massagers. They consist of small vibrating pads that slip around your fingertips, essentially turning each of your fingers into a vibrator. The two products that come to mind are the Fukuoku 9000 Fingertip Vibe and the Fukuoku Waterproof Massage Glove. Each of these vibrators has a unique style, but they are very similar in how they function.

There is another toy used by couples that you may want to consider. It's called the Bath Buddy and it's essentially a large sponge that contains a powerful waterproof vibrator inside. This toy can be used as a tool for sensual massage, as it sooths and relaxes aching muscles. Or, you can use the Bath Buddy as a sexual aid for both you and your boyfriend.

Toys for Men

You and your boyfriend may also want to consider some of the newer sex toys designed specifically for men. Examples fall within the category of vaginas and masturbation sleeves. These products are designed to fit snugly around the penis and provide a more comfortable and more enjoyable masturbation experience. You mentioned that you and your boyfriend are engaging in manual sex, and while that seems to be working at the moment you could spice things up a bit by using a masturbation sleeve. Instead of your bare hand you could bring your boyfriend to orgasm with the Sapphire Seduction or Pink Pleasure. Masturbation sleeves are typically made from soft and squishy materials that mimic the feel of a vagina. I've heard nothing but positive feedback from men I know who have tried a masturbation sleeve, so I'm guessing they work very well. All you need is a little bit of lubrication and you're ready to go. If you're looking for other men's toys take a look at our list of best selling sex toys for men.

Other Choices

Most sex toys can be used by couples. Vibrators can be used alone or with a partner, and it's probably safe to say the possibilities for sharing are limited only by your imagination. Many women enjoy having their partner stimulate them with a vibrator, and if you find this idea appealing you may want to give it some thought. Almost any vibrator can be turned into a couple's toy by virtue of how it's used, so my recommendations here are based on the popularity of the vibrators and not necessarily which are best for couples. You will need to consider what kind of stimulation you like and how you want to use the vibrator. When you've answered those questions choosing a vibrator is relatively easy. Generally, the Jack Rabbit Vibrator is a popular choice, as is the Rabbit Pearl Vibrator, Impulse Jack Rabbit and the Pocket Rocket Vibrator. This is by no means a complete list, but these toys have received a lot of positive feedback from our customers and each would make a good couple's toy. Each of these vibrators lends itself well to sharing with a partner. If you're looking for a vibrator that you can use virtually anywhere, you may want to consider a waterproof vibrator. The LAYAspot Massager is a popular toy that does a good job of stimulation the clitoris. The Torpedo, Platinum and Hawaiian Vibe are all good choices as well. I suppose I could go on with the recommendations, but the key is to figure out what you want the vibrator to do for you and make your selection from there. If you're looking for a G-Spot vibrator and you saw one that looked particularly appealing, go for it!